Thursday, November 29, 2007

Goodbye Friend

You may remember me posting this picture a few posts ago. This is a picture of Finney. She came into our family 13 years ago. Ever since she came, our family has never been the same. She has brought more joy, laughs, comfort and peace than I could have ever hoped for. I found out last night that she needed to be put to sleep. She had not been eating or drinking the past couple of days. My dad took her to the vet. They found out that she had cancer all over and was bleeding internally. My dad decided that it would be better to have her put to sleep than to continue living in pain. I am grateful that she won't be in as much pain now, but sad to not have her with us. It's amazing how much Finney has become a member of the family. She filled in areas that no one else could. I am grateful for the many wonderful years we were able to have her in our lives. She was a one of a kind friend. One that will truly be missed, but I will look forward to seeing her again. It's amazing how much I've learned from Finny. The importance of greeting people when you see them, of never giving up an opportunity to socialize and acquire food. To stop, enjoy and smell the flowers, and rocks, and trees and grass, etc, To protect the ones you love. To cuddle whenever possible. To take every opportunity to sleep in the warmest part in the bed or house. To sun bath. To love going on walks and get excited about the possibility of exercise. To forgive immediately. To just sit and listen. To always be cautious of wood floors. To enjoy car rides with the ones you love. That to truly enjoy a present you must relish in every part of it, including the wrapping paper. To let others know you love them every opportunity and chance you can.

6 comments:

Sarah said...

And just when Thomas was getting to the stage Finny loved...

It is sad and I am sorry that you did not have a chance to tell her goodbye. She was a good dog for the family.

Anonymous said...

Amen! Finny will leave a void in my heart and home. It's amazing how she touched each of our lives.

Lindsay said...

Don't forget about the importance of hiding food in your bed for a later snack! :0)

Finny will be missed greatly but never forgotten.

Kathryn said...

I forgot about that lesson Finny taught us. That was a funny lesson to learn as well. She had the best sense in where food was hiding, and how to get it without anyone knowing:-)

Jen said...

And to think she just mysteriously showed up Christmas morning 13 years ago dressed as an angel... Yes, she was one of the family's angels.

T and B said...

Sorry to hear about Finny. We'll miss her too. She was a good dog.